Marriage,is a socially or ritually recognized union between spouses that establishes rights and obligations between them, between them and their children, and between them and their in-laws.
婚姻是一個在社會上或是儀式上得到公認的配偶之間的聯合，這種聯合在配偶之間、配偶與孩子之間、配偶與他們本家之間建立了權利和義務的關系。
Seeing the definition of marriage, we recognize that a happy marriage doesn't solely concern spouses themselves,there are numerous other relationships involved.
看了婚姻的定義，我們認識到，一個幸福美滿的婚姻不只關系到配偶本身，還會涉及到許多其他的關系。
One of the most traditional and classical relationships among a marriage is the relationship,having been considered as the most intractable relationship since ancient times,between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law;Only with such a reasonable and flexible relationship are spouse able to achieve a relatively happy marriage.
在婚姻的許多關系中一個很傳統典型的關系是婆媳關系，婆媳關系自古以來被認為是最棘手的關系；只有一個合理靈活的婆媳關系才能達到一個相當幸福的婚姻。
To achieve such a reasonable relationship is as ardouous as to destroy a country, and it's of few possibilities that those who aren't married realize such a peculiar predicament；Why is that?
要達到這種合理的婆媳關系，其難度不亞于毀滅一個國家，而且沒經歷過婚姻生活的人基本不可能認識到這種為難的狀態；為什么會這么難呢？
The reasons,why such a speical relationship is not easy to
manage and maintian, are that it roughly unites those,who are of different scopes or levels of the world view、the outlook on life and the sense of worth, or perhaps knowledge and notions。
這種特殊的關系之所以難以經營及維護，是因為它粗略地聯合了擁有不同范圍或層次的世界觀、生活觀和價值觀的人，或可能是聯合了不同知識和觀念的人。
Even though building a reasonable relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is not something we can wholly control, we,usually the small role in this relationship,are definitely able to do something to partially control or alleviate this subtle relationship.
雖然要營造一個合理的婆媳關系不是我們全部能控制的事，但是我們，經常是婆媳關系的配角，確實可以做一些事來部分地控制或是緩和這種微妙的關系。
No matter how bad this relationship has been currenlty ,blaming or criticising yourself is always effective and timely,which means that you may always behave badly when it comes to some critical or decesion-making things,that are not negotiable between your mother and your wife,the prerequisite of which is that they both respect or love you.
無論目前婆媳關系多么糟糕，指責或是批評你自己經常是個行之有效的方法，意思就是當遇到重要的或是需要決策的且婆媳又不可調和的事情時，你就表現得很不得人心，要這樣做的前提是他們都很尊重或是愛你。
There are no potent standards or solutions to manage such a relationship, many families have skeletons in the closet,however,I firmly trust that there indeed are some great methods to achieve a better relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.
經營婆媳關系沒有權威的標準或是方法，家家有本難念的經，然而，我堅信確實存在一些能建立好的婆媳關系的方法。
